[Image] [ ] [ ] [Electronic Telegraph][Features] [Image] [See text menu at bottom of page] [Buy books at Amazon] ISSUE 1603 Friday 15 October 1999 [ ] [ ] [Fashion] [ ][ ] Another country [ ] For years, Tom Stoppard didn't inquire too deeply into his background. He was, as his stepfather insisted, and [External Links] his mother seemed to want, an honorary Englishman. But the truth, as this memoir reveals, is far more complex [>]Tom and poignant Stoppard - Internet HERE, now - here and now in this room in the only Movie country which is my country and among books in the only Database language I can remember speaking - the English writer who is myself considers the Czech family Beck in 1908. There are seven of them, dressed up for the studio [Image] photographer: Rudolf and Regina, my maternal grandparents, my future aunties Wilma, Berta, Anny and Irma, and their little brother Ota in his sailor-top. [ ] They stare back across 90 years of war and peace and war and peace. This is a photograph we have seen countless times, each time different, the family group who never made it together through the Holocaust. My table is covered with old [Image] photographs newly acquired from Wilma's son and from Berta's grandson. Here are the Beck children again, a few years older, in front of the same backdrop (pictured right). There is a fifth Tom Stoppard: 'I girl now. The new sister from her felt I was about scuffed boots to her clapped-on as English as you bonnet is a heartbreaker. She is could get' pushing palms-down with her clasped hands as though literally holding herself still. She is trying not to smile and not quite succeeding. This is my mother, Martha, in 1914, aged three. Privately, I always hesitate over the word Holocaust - a headline-writer's word for an act too actual for trope, too vast and monstrous for summation. But until quite recently it didn't seem to be my place to jib at it. When my mother was in her sixties I asked her to write down as much as she could remember about her life before I could remember it for myself. I sent her a leather-bound notebook as an incentive, which was a misjudgement. She sent it back, years later, unmarked ('it seems a waste'), and instead filled a few pages in a cheap exercise book. 'The move to England,' she wrote, 'had been so sudden, unplanned and drastic that I - perhaps subconsciously - decided the only thing to make it possible to live and truly settle down (I mean the three of us) was to draw a blind over my past life and start so to speak from scratch. Whether this was realistic or possible I don't know. I mean whether it was the right thing to do.' Her little memoir does not raise the blind very far. My mother wrote it when she was 70, in 1981, which happened to be the year Ota, the boy in the sea sailor-top, died. There is no mention of this brother and I did not learn of his existence until later. As to the names or number of her sisters, or what happened to them, the memoir is equally uninformative. She writes about family life before and after her marriage and about my father. She describes her parents and my father's parents, but does not say when or where or how they died. The word Jew or Jewish does not occur. When I was born, in July 1937 in Zlín, a small town in Moravia, my name was Tomas Straussler, Tomik to my mother and father. We left Czechoslovakia - my parents, my brother Petr and I - when the German army moved in. By the time I understood that there was a connection between these two events I was an English schoolboy, Stoppard Two at prep school (Peter being Stoppard One), Tommy at home. So we were Jewish? My mother would give a little frown and go 'Tsk!' in her way and say, 'Oh, if anyone had a Jewish grandparent at that time...' I believe I understand her 'Tsk!' It was less to do with denial than irritation. To ask the question was to accept the estimation put on it not by her but by the Germans. She had no sense of racial identity and no religious beliefs. Of course there were Jews in Zlín, she said, but they were proper Jews who wore black hats and went to the synagogue and the rest of it, Jews who were Jewish. During the last 18 months of her life - I did not know this then - my mother corresponded with a researcher in Zlín, Dr Emil Macel, who was trying to put together the almost forgotten story of the Bata Jews. Zlín was the world headquarters of the Bata shoe company, and my father was a doctor at the company hospital. 'In Czechoslovakia,' my mother wrote (in Czech) to Emil, 'there were so many mixed marriages that the matter lost importance. In my family the ratio was about 50-50. Three nephews and one niece lived in Bohemia, three generations in a modest Catholic environment.' As I understand it, if I do, 'being Jewish' didn't figure in her life until it disrupted it, and then it set her on a course of displacement, chaos, bereavement and - finally - sanctuary in a foreign country, England, thankful at least that her boys were now safe. Hitler made her Jewish in 1939. By the spring, in good time before the European war started, all that was behind her, literally; we embarked at Genoa for Singapore, in good time for the Japanese onslaught. For the Japanese were a different story. They killed my father and did their best to sink the ship which got the rest of us to India, but it wasn't personal, we weren't on a list, it was simply the war and being in the wrong place at the wrong time. My mother remarried in India in November 1945 and died in Devon in October 1996, aged 85, of cancer. The last words she spoke - in the front passenger seat of my car when we were taking her to the hospital - were (crossly), 'And Tom hasn't got any sweets!' She persisted in the idea that sweets in the car were a surety against the likelihood of my falling asleep at the wheel on my journeys back to London. I was 59. My stepfather, formerly Major Kenneth Stoppard in the British Army in India, believed with Cecil Rhodes that to be born an Englishman was to have drawn first prize in the lottery of life, and I doubt that even Rhodes, the Empire builder who lent his name to Rhodesia, believed it as utterly as Ken. His Utopia would have been populated by landed gentry, honest yeomen and Gurkhas. When my mother had just died, the words which came to him were, 'She was a very gallant lady', a formulation dating from Kipling's hill stations and the officers' mess. He was already ill, and died nine months later, by which time his Raj-nurtured sense of superiority over what Kipling called the lesser breeds had long festered into a bile against Jews, blacks, Irish, Yanks, foreigners in general and the urban working class. (Homosexuals were hardly mentioned because they were hardly mentionable.) He was an unlikely personality to have married a Czechoslovakian Jewess with two children. But marry her he did, and brought us to England four years to the day after we landed in Bombay. 'Don't you realise,' he once reproached me when, aged nine, I innocently referred to my 'real father', 'don't you realise that I made you British?' Ken was one of the very few Englishmen my mother had known before she got here, so perhaps it's not surprising that she thought Peter and I would be given a hard time at school and in English life if we were to start off as foreign Jews. As it turned out she was quite wrong, at least about the schools we went to. She herself remained engagingly foreign, keeping her accent, making us plum dumplings powdered with cinnamon, and delicious jam-filled buns called buchti which often found their way into the parcels of 'tuck' she sent to us at school. Her tuck parcels were misshapen triple-wrapped double-trussed Kellogg boxes overstuffed with things she thought were good for you, like glucose tablets and dried fruit, to offset the quantity of things which were definitely not. She had a third son, Richard, in 1949, and a daughter, Fiona, in 1955. Her concern for the good health of her children on the one hand, and of the rest of mankind on the other, weighed about equal, even when we were grown up with children of our own. When we came to visit, she'd see us off by pushing bags of toffees and home-made rock cakes and the occasional scarf, pair of gloves or piece of crockery at us, and at the last moment rushing back into the house for something she had forgotten, which she lamented when we phoned in to report that we'd survived the journey home. But for every homemade cake and knick-knack she gave out, my mother held back much more, whole histories. Some things I knew. Auntie Irma had married and gone to live in Argentina well before the war. The two sisters wrote to each other regularly until Irma died in 1995. I remember her. In 1948 or thereabouts, Irma came over to visit us. She and my mother spoke rapid emotional Czech while Peter and I bore up under Irma's tears and kisses. Nor was it any secret that we had family in Czechoslovakia. Letters in Czech, photographs and Christmas cards were occasionally exchanged, but as time went on the signal died. I was busy being English and seldom thought about these mysterious distant relatives. One of them, it turned out when I read my mother's memoir, was my father's sister: 'After a while, I had the feeling she did not want any letters from here. Her husband became a Judge of the People's Court, whatever that means, and of course I never wrote again. It was safer not to, as not to embarrass him.' That was the other thing. Having relatives 'in the West' was not good in Communist Czechoslovakia. When newspapers began referring to my Czech background, my mother would become cross and fretful. 'Why do they harp on about that? It's got nothing to do with your life now. Can't you stop them?' But there came the day when the Communists fell and the blind went up. I was in Czechoslovakia, president Havel's Czechoslovakia, for a PEN conference. Returning very late from Pilsen to my hotel in Prague, I found a young man waiting for me in the lobby. I learned later that he had travelled from his home in another town and had been waiting in the lobby for several hours. He had read in a newspaper that I was coming to Prague. It was now about two in the morning. He couldn't speak much English and I couldn't work out what he was trying to tell me. He had an old photograph album which he put on the hotel counter and opened. There was a photograph of me and my brother Peter with the family spaniel in the garden of our first house in England. Alexandr, I discovered, was the grandson of my mother's sister Berta. There were many photographs, including that one of the Beck children in 1914, and - even more astonishing to me - Martha in 1927, aged 16, as a flapper in beads, slave bracelet, Charleston shoes and party dress, looking amazingly pretty; and, again, in 1930, almost glamorous with carefully plucked eyebrows, in a fur-collared coat. The fact that my mother was beautiful had escaped me and the realisation was shocking, and then touching when I saw that the dress had obviously been run up at home, and the coat was a poor girl's best. She is wearing the coat again in cold weather in 1931, on a park bench with Wilma and Wilma's sons Jaroslav and Milan near trees and water among the buildings of the Bata hospital. By this time, 1994, I knew that my mother had started life with four older sisters and an older brother. I knew their names and I knew how Wilma, Berta and Anny had died. The person who told me was the daughter of one of the boys in the photograph on the park bench - Wilma's granddaughter Sarka. The year before, Sarka had written to my mother from Germany, where she now lived, proposing to visit her in Devon, and my mother (I can see it all) had slightly panicked because Ken would not have been receptive to this sort of thing and could not be relied on to behave gracefully. So we met in London, in the restaurant of the National Theatre where I was working that day - my mother, my sister (half-sister, but I never call her that), my sister's little girl and Sarka and I, who was Sarka's father's cousin. After a while, at one end of a long table cluttered with the remains of the meal, I got into a tęte-ŕ-tęte with Sarka. She wrote down the family tree of my mother's generation, on a sheet of foolscap which she turned sideways to get them all in. This was the first time, at least in my memory, that my Czech family were given names and relationships, and I was conscious that my English family, myself not least, must be looking distinctly odd to Sarka. It was a little embarrassing, even shameful; and I immediately made it worse. 'Sarka, were we Jewish?' 'What do you mean?' I adjusted. 'I mean, how Jewish were we?' 'You were Jewish.' 'Yes, I know we were Jewish, my father's family...' 'You were completely Jewish.' I looked at the family tree. I went left to right. 'What happened to Wilma?' 'She died in Auschwitz.' 'Berta? 'Auschwitz.' 'Anny?' 'She died in a different camp. I don't know where.' 'Ota?' 'He survived.' Irma was dying in Argentina, nearly 90, a widow and childless. Martha, the youngest, was busy with my sister and my niece at the far end of the table. My grandparents all died at the hands of the Germans. My father's parents, Julius and Hildegard Straussler, were part of a 'transport' of Moravian Jews, taken to Terezin, in Bohemia in northern Czechoslovakia where they arrived on 2 December 1941. On 9 January 1942, they were among 112 prisoners transported 'to the East', to Riga in Latvia. This is the recorded date of their deaths because it is the last known fact about them. Rudolf and Regina Beck, my mother's parents, were also transported to Terezin, and died there, in July and April 1944, while we were in India, Peter and I at school, my mother in charge of the Bata shoeshop in Darjeeling.from a few paces' distance, the interior walls of the 16th-century Pinkas Synagogue in Prague seem to shimmer with tracery tight as knitting. But it's not tracery, it's names - the 80,000 Bohemian and Moravian Jewish victims of the Nazis. I am here with Sarka and her father, Jaroslav. They have been here before. We three find the names again, the Strausslers and the Becks. Anny, I tell Sarka, died at Riga, on 9 January 1942, as far as anyone knows: the same place and date as my father's parents. (I'm the one with the information now. A year earlier Peter and I had returned to Zlín for the first time, to meet Emil Macel, my source.) Anny was the sister who never married. Wilma, the eldest, and Berta, the next eldest, married gentiles, but that had not saved them. Jaroslav and I were meeting today for the first time since I was in my pram. Jaroslav was 16 then. He remembered that he took two-year-old Petr for a walk, holding him by the hand. Petr had a runny nose, Jaroslav wiped it for him. After leaving the Pinkas Synagogue, Sarka and Jaroslav took me to the station for the train to Zlín, three or four hours to the south-east. On the train with me I had a fold-out gazetteer of 'Jewish Monuments in Moravia and Silesia'. Zlín merited only three lines and two items of interest: there was a small Jewish section in one of the cemeteries, and it was the birthplace of the English playwright Tom Stoppard, 'in proper name Tomas Straussler (born 1937)'. All my life I have been told that I 'take after my mother', whatever that was supposed to mean, and now it does appear to mean more than a compliment. In August 1968 when the armies of the Warsaw Pact put down the movement for reform in Czechoslovakia, my then wife was firstly incredulous and secondly infuriated that I didn't get worked up about it as a Czech. It was true. I had no special feeling other than the general English one of impotent condemnation, tinged with that complacency felt when the ogres of one's personal demonology behave true to form. I knew I was - used to be - Czech but I didn't feel Czech. That year I had some money for the first time, and was buying first editions of Jane Austen, Charles Dickens and Evelyn Waugh, and beginning to collect 19th-century English landscape watercolours in a thatched cottage in a commuter-belt mock-up of rural England. I felt I was [ ]about as English as you could get. Even when, in 1977, I made my first return to Czechoslovakia, I felt no identification at all. Everything - the landscape, the architecture - looked interestingly foreign. My purpose was human rights, and I could as well have been in Poland or Hungary. Indeed there was something slightly irritating about the way newspapers then and later would call up to ask for a quote or an article about Czech affairs, of which I usually knew little, as though I were a Czech expert. Earlier that year I had been to Moscow and Leningrad on another human rights story, the imprisonment in psychiatric hospitals of Jews who applied for exit visas to Israel. I continued to write about this persecution, and sometimes to speak from platforms, finally, in 1985, organising a 24-hour 'event' in London for which I recruited scores of notables (Senator Bill Bradley flew over specially). As a result I received letters thanking me as a Jew, and I remember once or twice - feeling obscurely that I was receiving credit under false pretences - I replied that I was not Jewish or at any rate not really Jewish. I had become habituated to the unexamined idea that although - obviously - there was some Jewish blood in me (my father's father's?), enough to make me more interesting to myself, and to have risked attention from the Nazis, it was not really enough to connect me with the Jews who died in the camps and those who didn't. This almost wilful purblindness, a rarely disturbed absence of curiosity combined with an endless willingness not to disturb my mother by questioning her, even after - no, especially after - our meeting with Sarka, comes back to me now in the form of self-reproach, not helped by my current state of mind now that I'm Jewish. I feel no more Jewish than I felt Czech when, 22 years ago, I went to Prague for a week to do my English bit for Charter 77. Moreover, unlike my attitude to the Czechness of things, which always had the neutrality of disinterest, I am definitely uneasy with Jewish orthodoxy, which I do not exempt from a general unease with all manifestations of exclusive ritual and heightened religiosity - bleeding Christs, Hindu temples, Mormons, Jehovah's Witnesses, et cetera. And another thing. Before I was Jewish my attitude to Israel teetered between admiration and a disquieting sense that the Palestinians were paying for the Allies' conscience about what the Germans did - picking up the bill for the Nazis, in fact - and now that I'm Jewish, I have the same disquiet. My friend Manny Azenberg in New York has been asking me for years to go with him to Israel. I never had the time (that is, of course, enough interest to make the time) and now I have the odd sense of it's being too late. I don't want to be claimed as if I've turned into someone else. This is why I think I understand my mother going 'Tsk!' But we shall see. Until a couple of years ago I never had any interest in going back to Zlín. Zlín, 15.11.97 Dear Sir, When studying the archives of the Bata Company in Zlín I found a personal file of your father Mr Eugen Straussler MD who lost his life in Singapore when his ship was sunk by Japanese bombers in 1942.In this file is perhaps the only preserved photograph of your father. I sent your mother a copy of the file. I would like to mention that I exchanged letters with your mother for about two years, but for one year I did not hear from her. In her last letter she wrote she was ill and since then I am without news about further life... My mother had been dead for 13 months when Emil Macel introduced himself by letter. My brother Peter and I went to Zlín to meet Emil in May last year, 58 years after we'd got out. Neither of us had any memory of being there. We found our family home, a brick cube with its own garden, one of scores of similar houses built by Bata in a grid of leafy streets not far from the hospital. My parents moved in in July 1934, a month after they were married. From my mother's notebook memoir: When I left school I took a secretarial course and like everyone else joined the Firm. After I started working, I must have been 18 then, life became less restricted. I started ski-ing and going to dances (with my mother sitting there). On one ski trip - away day only - and without my mother! - a young doctor from the hospital invited me to a dance there, and that's where I met your father, who was still studying but working there during vacations. He was one of a group of students from various universities... I was saving like mad knowing we will be poor to start with. Continental custom is very different. The man does not (or does not have to) provide a thing. In most cases men expect and get a dowry. Money. And to marry a girl without money is heroic. Well, he was and he did... The next five years were blissful. We must have had our ups and downs but as always one only remembers the good times. Just as well. Your father was perhaps not handsome in the conventional way, he was very intelligent, had great charm (I was always fighting off the nurses!) and had a first-class brain, but was very modest. His integrity was total. Everyone in the hospital liked him - the staff and the patients. I don't want to sound too fulsome but this is how I remember him and when I die there won't be anyone left to say what kind of a person he was. What he would have finally achieved one can only guess. He had no intention of going into general practice and was well on the way to becoming a heart and lung specialist. In my mind I always knew what my father looked like and my memory of him is supported by (or perhaps consists in) a few tiny snapshots. The Bata archive adds a few dispassionate touches to the portrait. His letter of employment, in February 1932, promises him board and lodging at the hospital and 200 crowns per week (there were 140 crowns in an English pound). His personal property was 'nil', his savings were 'nil', his debts were 'nil', the money he had to tide him over till his first pay day was 'nil'. He had been recruited by the head of the Bata hospital, Dr Albert. Germany annexed Austria in March 1938, and in September the disputed Czech territory of Sudetenland was ceded to Hitler. On 19 September, my mother (who in her memoir wrote, 'I have no recollection of any special holidays and I am sure we did not go abroad') was issued with her first passport. In February 1939 she received 30 English pounds from the Firm - 'Mrs Straussler is going with her husband, who will stay in Singapore for at least three years.' On 14 March, the company 'Social and Health Institute' reported that Dr Straussler and family were fit for the tropics. In April this year, the 96-year-old widow of Dr Albert, chief of the Bata hospital, receives me in her flat in Prague, with her two daughters, Senta and Zaria. She is telling me what happened on 14 March 1939. Very early in the morning, Dr Albert got a phone call from the Bata directorship to tell him that the German army had crossed the frontier. He then got on the phone himself and called the Jewish doctors to his house. 'My husband said - you have to get out, right now.' Bata had factories and offices in many countries, and the Jewish doctors (Emil believes there were 15) were given places out of danger. Mrs Albertova shows me a photograph. 'This is the room where they met.' Most of the photograph is occupied by a bookcase, which I realise is also in the room I'm sitting in. Her younger daughter Zaria was only six years old but she remembers the meeting - 'afterwards the room was full of smoke.' All three remember Dr Straussler. The two 'girls' tell me he was considered the nicest of the young doctors, the one they asked to have when they had measles and other childhood illnesses. 'When Dr Straussler talked to us we knew everything would be all right.' It seems, too, that of Dr Albert's young assistant physicians, Dr Straussler was the high-flyer, the chief's favourite. 'When there was a problem, my husband would send for him and tell him, "You sort it."' When Zaria was very young she put her hand through a glass pane and cut it. Dr Straussler stitched the cut. Zaria holds out her hand, which still shows the mark. I touch it. In that moment, I am surprised by grief, a small catching-up of all the grief I owe. I have nothing which came from my father, nothing he owned or touched, but here is his trace, a small scar. Your father chose Singapore. It was all marvellous in the beginning. I liked the heat, the exotic fruit, the food and the local people. You had a perfectly sweet Malayan ayah who pushed you and Peter around in a double cane pushchair and tried hard to speak Czech to you. She would say, '0h, don't cry!' or 'Hurry up, bathtime!' It was her party piece and she loved you both. Later you both went every morning in a rickshaw to a kindergarten. We lived in a small house belonging to a Dutch shipping company or KLM, can't remember. The house was for temporary occupation and we had just started looking at houses nearer the sea when war broke out. Even now I can't write about it all. We were not panicking and we were together but like for everyone else it was traumatic. By the middle of January, a lot of women and children left because they wanted to but by the end of the month all women and children were evacuated. I stayed as long as I could, specially as I did not want to go on my own to Australia. Hoping that we might all go eventually. It just did not work out and the last few days were chaotic, boats, days and times always being changed. The journey from Singapore was pretty dreadful. We were bombed just about everywhere. In the harbour, standing three days just off Singapore, then on the way to Australia, then turned back to Singapore and finally to India. At the time we were so worried about the men left behind in Singapore we did not really notice or mind anything. Cabins were over-crowded and mattresses on decks preferable. Children were always getting lost (not mine!) but I cried myself silly one night because I lost two silver medallions engraved with your names my best friend gave you. Hung them on a hook in the bathroom instead of putting them into my pocket - will I never learn? I remember this. I remember the medallions, and the loss, and most of all my mother crying. Personally I did not like being in India. The constant worry about your father, what happened, where he was - did he know where we were and mainly did he survive? Nobody had any information although the Red Cross and Czech consul in Calcutta tried hard for us all. There were columns of notices in the Calcutta papers where people wanted information about missing husbands, wives, even children. The four years seem even now like a lifetime and a nightmare. I have no idea how and why I came to Darjeeling. By that time I was feeling rather ill, depressed, and it was all getting too much. Darjeeling was the change I needed. The air was so good and I was busy working and enjoying it. Otherwise it was just a matter of waiting and waiting. Once I was asked to go to Calcutta, only to be told that after all the people were accounted for, your father was amongst those missing, presumed lost, and as they were all listed as civilians, it was all they could do. I returned the next day to Darjeeling but did not tell you. Rightly or wrongly. Rightly, I think. You had enough to cope with.' But one day in Darjeeling, a woman friend, at my mother's request, took Peter and me for a walk and told us that our father was dead. Then she walked us back to the house where my mother was waiting for us, teary-eyed and anxious about how we had taken it. For my part, I took it well, or not well depending on how you look at it. I felt almost nothing. I felt the significance of the occasion but not the loss. How had my father died? On land? At sea? No one seemed to know. As far as I was told he had simply disappeared. But in fact there were people who did know, and at least one of them, a Singapore survivor, married to a close friend of my mother, must have told her. So that was something else she preferred not to go into.in singapore, in one of those dutch company houses, there lived an English family, Leslie and Katherine Smith and their son Tony, who was the same age as my brother Peter. Leslie, today a spry and dapper 90, was the manager of a British company making optical and navigational instruments. He got in touch with me this year. Our families, he said, were friends. On Sundays sometimes we would go to the Singapore swimming club together. Katherine Smith and Martha used to have each other in for coffee. When Peter answered the door he would shout, 'Mama! Pani [Mrs] Smithova!' Two days before the fall of Singapore, said Leslie, after the women and children had left, my father and another Czech, Mr Heim, came to his office one evening. 'They said, "Look, we have to get out. Can you help?" Because of my work, I had a pass to the docks and I knew the ships' captains. So we got into my car. It was dark. The sentry at the docks let us through. There were several ships but only one of them seemed to have any activity going on. We went on board. I knew the captain, and I asked him if he would take these two Czechs. He said, yes he would. Your father tried to persuade me to go with them, but I said I couldn't leave my staff. So we all shook hands and that was the last I saw of your father.' The ship was sunk by the Japanese in the strait between Sumatra and the Island of Bangka, trying to make it to Australia.a few days after my mother died, Ken, whom from England onwards I had called 'Daddy' or 'Father' or 'Dad' (though he objected to 'Dad' which he thought was lower class), wrote to me to say that he had been concerned for some time about my 'tribalisation', by which he meant mainly my association, ten years earlier, with the cause of Russian Jews, and he asked me to stop using 'Stoppard' as my name. I wrote back that this was not practical. Leaving aside the anti-Semitism and, frankly, the dottiness, I know what made Major Stoppard, himself the father of two half-Jewish children, so angry. Whatever his opinions about Jews, his prejudice had an obverse side, a paternalism towards other races who were grateful to adopt English ways and modes of thought. Blacks were admirable when they were anglophile Indians. Gurkhas were especially admirable. But when it came to Jews (or Indians) who to their good fortune received honorary membership of the club but persisted in their 'tribal' ways none the less - that was sheer ingratitude, an insult to his country. Don't you realise I made you British? Until I went to the bad, and the first sign of that was when I turned out to be arty, I was coming on well as an honorary Englishman. He taught me to fish, to love the countryside, to speak properly, to respect the Monarchy. In the end I disappointed him. And yet, did he but know it, it's all too late, this going back, these photographs, that small scar on Zaria's hand. They have the power to move, but not to reclaim. I was eight-and-a-half when our ship docked at Southampton on a freezing February day. My feet were so cold I cried. We had to travel halfway up England to Ken's mother's house. The train journey from Southampton to Retford was nerve-racking to say the least. I hope I wasn't irritable or cross with you. You could not possibly have known what state I was in! I did not know what to expect at the end of that long journey. As it turned out, it was all very friendly and Ken's mother could not have been kinder to us. I was still Tommy Straussler, but English was my only language when Ken gave me his name, three weeks later, and long before he asked for it back Englishness had won and Czechoslovakia had lost. 27 February 1999: What Tom thinks of Oscar [Next report] Love, money and Lady Palumbo [Image] Search Features for [search] [ ] [ Front Page | UK News | International News | City | Sport | Features | Reviews | Search | Feedback | Alex | Site Plan | Daily Index | Weather | Crossword | Matt | Travel | Books | Technology | Students | Schools | Opinions | Classifieds | Appointments ] © Copyright of Telegraph Group Limited 1999. Terms & Conditions of reading. Commercial information. [Email]